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ABC’s of Life

    I’ve been thinking a lot about how I want to do this. I know that I want to do a series of ABC posts, a series where each post will be about a topic that starts with A, B, C, D…and on through the alphabet. The only “problem” is that there are so many ways I could go with this. I could use the letters to write about things that are important to me. I could use them to write up 26 little known facts about me. I could use them for posts about places I would like to visit. There are just so many things I could do. It’s been hard to come up with a way to focus these posts. That’s why I didn’t start right away, the way I planned to.

    But I think I have finally come up with a way to do this. And the plan I have will be beneficial to me and to my family. Hopefully my readers will get a little wisdom from it, too.

    I’ve decided that I will write about 26 different attributes or attitudes that I would like to see develop in my children. Throughout the next 26 days, I will write about a different character trait and what the Bible has to say about it. Please comment on anything you read that you agree with or don’t agree with. I don’t claim to be perfect, and I don’t think that I know everything. I’d like to learn from you as much as I want my children to learn from me.

I’ve been thinking a lot about what I wanted to write for today.  It’s time to start my ABC blogs and I have an idea of how I want to do those.  But when I got ready to sit down and write my first blog, the phone rang.  And that little phone call changed my plans!

Instead of starting my ABC blog, I am writing about something else–my surgery.  More specifically, I am excited to announce that a date has been set for my bariatric surgery.  I go in on May 23 for a gastric sleeve.  I cannot tell you how excited I am about this!

May 23 is just two weeks away!  After all this time of waiting and planning, it’s hard to believe I am just two weeks away from surgery.  One of my cousins referred to it as “the first day of the rest of your life.”  In so many ways, it feels like I am starting a whole new life.  So many things are going to be different.  But that is OK.  I mean, the way things have been is not really wonderful, not for my health.  This will be the first step toward a much healthier me.

It does mean I have a busy week coming up.  I have appointments on Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday of this week.  I have to meet with the actual surgeon who will perform my surgery (Dr. Finks, who I have seen in passing but not actually met yet), go to a nutrition class, and then meet with the anesthesiologist.  Oh yeah, and I need a pre-op physical.  Not really looking forward to that, but it’s part of the surgical process.   I have been ready for a surgery date since March.  No way am I going to let a little physical get in the way!

Pictures will be coming soon–I promise!!  My plan is to post a picture of me along with my weight and my measurements before surgery, the day of surgery, and every month on the anniversary of my surgery.  That way, we can all see together how my body is changing as I eat less, eat healthy, and exercise more!

A song you can play on an instrument

This is going to be short and easy. I don’t play an instrument. Tried the violin and cello when I was in 6th grade. Didn’t stick with either one, though. Mainly, because I couldn’t play as well as my older sister, at least that is what Mrs. Hammersly kept telling me. So I gave it up and never tried playing anything else.

Unless my stereo counts. I can play just about anything on that!!!!

A song you listen to when you are happy.

Hmm…. Wow. Can’t believe how hard this one is. Has it been so long since I have felt happy that I just can’t think of a song? No, that can’t be it!

Back on Day Two, I posted “Hello” by Lionel Richie as a song that makes me happy. And it does, because of the memories associated with the song. But I don’t often listen to it when I am happy. That is more of a lost-in-the-memories kind of a song.

When I am in a good mood, I like to listen to upbeat, dancy kind of songs. Songs like this…

or this one….

or maybe even…

OH!! Or this one!! LOVE this one!!!

In fact, just listening to all of those has brightened up my mood today! Nothing has changed, I’ve just enjoyed some upbeat songs. Wow. Guess there really is power in music!

A song from your favorite album….

I thought about this one for a while, but I think I know it! And I’ll be it will surprise a lot of people which song I picked. More to the point, it will probably surprise people to know what I think of as my favorite album.

It’s an old one, I suppose. All depends on what you think of as old! The album was released in 1988. (Yes, I had to look it up to be sure that I had the right release date!) It was probably two years later that I got my hands on a copy of it. I think I nearly wore out the cassette tape listening to it so much. When I found a CD in a used music store once, I was so excited. Not that I have it anymore. I don’t know what I ever did with it, but it’s not on my shelf. I wish it was. It’s full of songs that I love to dance to, and a few awesome love songs.

One of those love songs (a sad, sappy one of course!) is the one I want to share with you right now. You think you know what song I am taling about? I bet you don’t! I’ll bet you saw the date and assumed I was talking about a New Kids on the Block song. Nope! Close, but that’s not it. The song from my favorite album that I want to share with you is “All This Time” by Tiffany.

Now that you know Tiffany’s album Hold an Old Friend’s Hand is my favorite, I have to ask you this—what is your favorite album? What song from that album do you like the best?

Song Challenge, Day Seventeen

A song that you hear often on the radio….

Lately it seems like every time I turn on the radio there is one particular song playing. Not that I am complaining! I really enjoy the song. It is “Lead Me” by Sanctus Real. Even more then the song, I enjoy the story behind it. That is why I have decided to share with you today a video of the song and a video of the song writer. I hope you are as blessed by it as I have been.

And here is the story behind the song….

A song that describes you….

This one is a bit harder. There are a lot of songs that speak to me. And there are a lot of songs that describe who I want to be. But to choose one that describes who I am right not, at this particular point in my life…. That’s going to take a lot of thought.

One of the first songs that comes to mind is “Jesus Freak” by DC Talk. Once upon a time, I thought the term Jesus freak had a negative meaning. Today, though, I see it differently. Who cares if people are embarrassed or ashamed to be near me because the light of Jesus shines through me? Better to embarrass people here on Earth than get to Heaven and have Jesus proclaim that He is ashamed of me.

Right along that same line of thinking is the song “I’m Not Ashamed” by the Newsboys.

Then I thought of a song by Carman. Two actually. “Radically Saved” and “Addicted to Jesus.” Yeah, those are two phrases that I am happy to have attached to my name!

But I think the best song to describe me right now is an old one by DeGarmo and Key. That song is “Casual Christian.” Not that I am saying I am a casual Christian. That is not a term that I want to have attached to my name. I don’t want to just sit back and allow the world to go on around me without doing something, ANYthing, to impact those around me for Christ. I want my love for Him to show in all that I do. I don’t want to be casual about my relationship with Christ. I don’t want to be lukewarm. No, instead “I want to light up the night with an everlasting light.”

How about you? What song best describes your life today?

Accepted and Excited!

I am so EXCITED today!!!

As you may remember, I had my medical evaluation for weight loss surgery on March 3 and then my psychological evaluation on March 18. I’ve been told ever since the 18th that my case would go before the review board “any day now.” And I was getting rather frustrates that nothing was happening! Today, I called and found out that my case was presented to the review board on Tuesday, April 12. I had to wait on hold to speak with someone specifically about it, but I learned that I have been accepted into the program!

There are a few things that I need to do yet—like attend a nutrition class—but now I am officially in the bariatric program. I am beyond happy about that!

One thing that annoys me, though, is that I have to either see a counselor who specializes in food addictions or go to a Hunger Within Workshop. Now, neither of those options is a particularly bad one, especially as my health insurance will pick up the tab. The problem is that I have to drive at least half an hour to get to the appointments. Half an hour, on the highway. And I am paranoid about highway driving. Oh, and the workshop? Yeah, it is pretty much out of the question. The current workshop is full and the next one doesn’t start until September. SEPTEMBER!!! I am so NOT willing to wait that long for my surgery.

There is one other option. If I provide documentation about my activity in OA, they “might” consider that in lieu of counseling or the workshop. That would be the easiest for me, and I am praying that it works out that way. But if not, I will have no choice but to conquer my highway driving fear and get to counseling appointments in Ann Arbor.

Song Challenge, Day Four

A song that makes you sad. This is another tuffy. I love sad songs. Not sure why. Maybe I am warped in some way (no comments from the peanut gallery, please!) But there is something about a good sad love song that really gets to me. I have a list of them on YouTube that I listen to when I am writing. Hey, it helps to write about a couple going through problems while listening to someone singing about relationship problems!

My favorite sad song, though, is “I Cried” by Joey McIntyre. Yeah, bet you are not all that surprised that I chose a New Kids on the Block related song, are you? Bet most of you are more surprised that it took this long for me to post a song by a New Kid!

Oh, and I also enjoy the song “I Love You Came Too Late.” It’s another by Joey Mac. It’s a sad song, too, but it is a more dancy tune. Enjoy!!

Song Challenge, Day Two

Your Least Favorite Song

This one is a lot easier!! There is only one OH I CANNOT STAND THIS SONG song that I could think of. That song is “Long Haired Lover From Liverpool” by Jimmy Osmond. I absolutely DESPISE that song! Do you get the picture? I hate this song, and I don’t like to use the word hate very often.

When I was a child, I had long hair. My Dad used to tease me with this song. He’d play it in the car just to annoy me. Let me tell you, it worked!!! Twenty-five or thirty years later and the song still makes me cringe. Take a listen, if you dare.

How about you? What song is your least favorite?

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